Sunday, November 29, 2009

Childless in Melbourne

I got back yesterday afternoon from a fantastic weekend in Melbourne with Kendall. Rob booked it all up for me a few weeks ago and couldn't get me out the door fast enough on Friday morning. Rob felt greatly revived after his ski trip to NZ earlier in the year and was keen for me to also benefit from time away from family and responsibilities. (At least I think that's why he was so keen to see the back of me.) I flew to Melbourne on Friday morning, marvelling at how easy it is to get on and off and actually sit on a plane without children. Who knew it was possible to hold a drink and a conversation at the same time? Although it's only a 90-minute flight, I enjoyed every minute of it.  I met Kendall at his gorgeous new home, an apartment in building converted from an old chocolate factory, in the fabulously hip suburb of Fitzroy. After a cuppa and a quick catch up we were out the door for a long walk perusing the many  shops, bars and restaurants. The nearest I can come to describing Fitzroy is like a cross between Portobello Road (of the late '80s/early '90s at least) with NY's East village.  There are no chain restaurants or shops here, instead one-off vintage  clothes and furniture shops, beautiful stationers, unusual bookshops, tiny galleries, craft and art shops and fantastic places to eat are the order of the day. It didn't feel at all like we were in Australia. We had lunch on the roof (another Melbourne anomaly - why doesn't Sydney have more rooftop bars?) of a huge old building, with paint peeling off the walls and a huge cupie doll on the outside, dining on $4 pizzas and wine. Kendall had told me to bring a cardi, due to Melbourne's notoriously unpredictable weather,but instead we were drenched with sun, making a sunscreen application before lunch. In the afternoon, we napped at home for an hour before getting dressed up and heading into the city on the tram. We started at Coda, a Melbourne 'it' place, a fantastic subterranean bar & restaurant serving small share plates and great wine. We met up with Peter Gotting, an old journalist friend from the Herald, who I hadn't seen for years. We carried on to Movida, one of Melbourne's best places for tapas, located in a laneway famous for graffti and street art, followed by two more roof bars. The first, Madame Brussels, features staff wearing tennis gear in a room decorated with fake grass and cocktails served in huge jugs. The last bar was on the roof next to the theatre and offered a whole different perspective of the city.We jumped on the tram just as the heavens opened, arriving home for another glass of wine and a fairly reasonable bedtime of midnight.


On Saturday morning Kendall whipped up a superb breakfast of avocado, tomato and bacon on crusty bread and then we headed out first to an artist's market and then in and out of more shops and galleries before settling for an hour or two in a little French bar eating fresh terrine, gravalax and bread with a couple of glasses of wine. Kendall made it so easy for me to relax, always happy to stop when I wanted to look at something, carrying on when I wanted to and, like me, he's fond of a disco nap, which is what we had on Saturday afternoon to be ready for our next night out.  By the time we came to leave for the Christmas drinks party Kendall had arranged in a bar, it was absolutely chucking it down, so we jumped in the car to drive the short distance to a local Vietnamese place for a quick bowl of noodles and laksa. Onwards then to a great little bar, Kendall and his friends had taken over for the night for an annual catch up. Lots of drinking and laughing ended at 1.30am with Kendall and I jumping in a cab home for a debrief. We awoke on Sunday morning, surprisingly free of hangovers, and headed around the corner, in much cooler weather (hooray for that cardi) to a cafe serving baked eggs and bacon with cauliflower puree - God it was good. Coffee, newspapers. Bliss. I flew back to Sydney yesterday afternoon to weather 10 degrees warmer than Melbourne and to the beautiful smiling faces of my girls and Rob, before an afternoon dip in the paddling pool. 

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Camping by the coast

Apart from sitting around a table groaning with food and wine, with family and friends, camping at the beach IS MY FAVOURITE THING TO DO. With temperatures in Sydney due to hit the high 30s this weekend, we couldn't have picked a better weekend to choose to head south to Gerroa. We normally rent houses in this lovely village, but decided to check out the campground for the first time on this trip with the McPhersons. Although the campsite itself was fairly uninspiring, with tiny pitches, it did have a few things to recommend it. First, it had a pool, secondly it had a jumping pillow- more on this later - and third it was right behind Seven Mile Beach, one of our favourite Australian beaches. Here it is below - count those seven empty miles.
Lenka and I headed up the camping planning committee and agreed early on we weren't interested in lots of campsite cooking and clearing up. To that end, the two families arrived within an hour of each other on Friday night and, after tent pitching was completed, feasted on take away fish and chips. The gin was opened, the children slept and the weekend began.
On Saturday we awoke to an overcast but hot day and a bacon and egg roll fry up was the order of the day. I fell in love with Jules and Lenka's super efficient but compact camping stove. The swimming pool was immediately used to cool off and as the day unrolled, we were in the welcoming chilly surf, in and out of the pool and on the Jumping Pillow. The latter is a sort of permanent bouncy castle but without walls and surrounded by sand. We all had a hoot jumping about on it with the kids, but it was hot work.

We spent the afternoon in the Crooked River than runs down from the hills to the coast, paddling and being carried out towards the sea by the current.

Scarlett had her first go boogoe boarding - here's a short film clip of her.
On Saturday night we frocked up and walked along the beach to the Seahaven Cafe, the only place to eat in Gerroa, for a lovely family dinner. The kids were angelic and while we finished eating, we let them all go across the road to a small playground by the river. We had a lovely moonlit walk back along the beach to the campground and once the kids ( and Jules) fell asleep at 8.30pm, Rob, Lenka and I put the world to rights with a few glasses of champagne.


This morning we swam and jumped again while the boys packed up and after the McPs headed back to Sydney, we spent the rest of the morning at the beach. Rob smoked a fag, extinguished it and then put it on the sand near our things, so he could pop it in the bin when we left the beach. There was quite a strong seabreeze and, with the high temperatures, the entire state was observing a strict 'no fire' ban. We were messing about in the water, glancing back at our things now and again and I noted how the strong wind was sending sand flying over Rob's (new beach Twister) towel. I said "it almost looks like your towel is on fire." We looked again and it was - on fire, embers flying everywhere. Somehow the wind has reignited, Rob's fag and the towel hadblown on top of it. Here is the after shot of the towel, burnt beyond repair.

We drove back to Sydney this afternoon to 40 degrees. It is unbearable. We have filled the bath with cold water, are wearing wet clothes to keep cool and have plonked the kids in front of the tv in just their underwear and with wet flannels and water bottles to keep themselves cool. I am not looking forward to the disrupted night's sleep ahead.

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Meet Jane Beith

This is Jane Beith. I first met her 11 years ago when she came to chat with me when I was in hospital recovering from a mastectomy. She sat beside my bed and made me laugh, not an easy task when the jovial conversation is being punctuated with the names of chemotherapy drugs. Jane Beith was, and remains, my oncologist. She is (as we say in Australia) a bloody legend and Rob and I think the world of her. I have no doubt that Jane Beith is the reason I am the fit (despite having the running stance of a retiree) and healthy (despite particular fondness for white wine and Maynards wine gums) person I am today. Yesterday I met with Jane Beith for my 11th (count 'em) annual appointment and once again we embraced each other like old friends and remarked on how far we have both come. I realise that in all the years Jane has been in our lives, no one else has ever seen her, so here she is. She usually looks like this, all smiley and happy despite her grim occupation. She's about to take a couple of well-deserved months off away as she works 6 days a week in two hospitals, including the RPA's Sydney Cancer Centre, which is where we met. Jane told me she is now 48 and asked me if it freaked me out that I was treated by a 37-year-old back in 1998. I said it didn't. But then she said " I would have given you a good standard of care, but I'm a better doctor now." She's always been open and honest like this about my treatment and gives great advice. Like I said, she's a bloody legend.

Monday, November 16, 2009

happy birthday Rob


In spite of his ability to not look a day over 35, Rob turned 46 yesterday. We celebrated with a two-day Festival of Rob which began on Sunday.  Rob was curious about his main gift which he knew I had hidden in the studio, as it was too big to wrap or conceal anywhere in the house. We agreed he could have this one gift in advance of his drinks party on Sunday afternoon. I presented him with his custom-made bus scroll with excellent effect - he burst into tears. I assumed these were happy tears. I'd wanted a bus scroll for ages, I love the sharp graphic contrast of the white type on the matt black fabric, and had looked for original ones of the number 19 and 38 buses in London that we used to get to our flat in Islington without success.  I found a website that custom made them in exchange for a large sack of coins, so instead got my graphic designer friend Luke to create it for me, using most of the places Rob has ever lived as the destinations. Then I had it printed at a sign shop and finally had it stretched. There were all sorts of shenanigans involved in getting it home as it wouldn't fit in my car. The picture framer had to deliver in  with us operating in a pincer movement outside the house just in case Rob came home at the moment it came out of the framer's car.  Anyway, Rob loved it which I'm thrilled about. 
In the afternoon, we had about 30 people over  for drinks and nibbles. I outdid myself on the food, even if I do say so myself, having spent 7 hours preparing a range of canapes. The coconut milk chicken skewers and smoked salmon frittatas were stand outs but the turquoise iced cupcakes were also crowd pleasers.




It was a brilliant afternoon and after some gift opening, a few rounds of beach Twister - the traditional plastic mat replaced by a towel  - we retired to bed full of good food and wine, not before spotting this massive spider on the window. 

Yesterday was the 16th, Rob's actual birthday, and as the forecast was for 39 degrees, Rob opened his presents and cards (thank you everyone) and then we packed the car early and were at the beach by 9am. We had a birthday breakfast at Bathers' Pavilion before a smashing morning on the beach of hole digging and  rock pooling and a bit of a swim - Rob now brave enough to return to the scene of his watery attack. We spent the afternoon cooling off under the hose  and in the paddling pool before dinner out with the girls, Lara and Adam and their son Toby.  The authentic Italian atmosphere couldn't have been more pronounced as seated at the next table were 4 priests and 2 nuns.  Happy Birthday Rob.


Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Fantastic Mr Fox



I took Scarlett to a preview of Fantastic Mr Fox last night. It was brilliant. I love Pixar movies as much as the next lover of animation, but with Fantastic Mr Fox it was refreshingly fabulous to see a totally different non-CGI, old school form of stop-motion animation. Voiced by George Clooney, Meryl Streep and Bill Murray among others, it's an absolute treat. It's officially a film for older children but for me, as it's directed by Wes Anderson, it was just like all his other grown up films, but with hand made puppets instead of actors. Most of it went right over Scarlett's head. Also a fantastic soundtrack. Go and see it.
Here's a link to a trailer
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n2igjYFojUo

and to a great little behind the scenes featurette
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BN9VS2uwoJ0&feature=related

Sunday, November 08, 2009

Birthdays and bites



On the boiling hot day last week, Rob and I took Florence to Balmoral to cool off. At one point, Rob walked into the shallows with Flo in his arms for a bit of a splash. One minute we were standing there chatting and the next Rob was hopping about yelling and screaming like a looney. I thought he was joking around, trying to scare Flo. Then I realised he was serious, and as he half dropped, half threw Flo into my arms, he hopped, yelling, back to the beach with blood pouring from the side of his foot. His foot quickly swelled up and thick dark blood was pumping from two small wounds. When asked to rate the pain between 1 and 10, Rob described it as 26 and my first thought was that we might need some urgent first aid or even a doctor. Since most creatures in Australia are poisonous, a bite or sting from one can often result in multiple organ failure, amputation or death and we both feared he might be in cardiac arrest within 30 minutes, so made our way to the medical centre. The doctor had no idea what had caused the wound and accompanying throbbing pain, but we reckon it might have been a stingray. Thankfully Rob's heart is not in his foot otherwise he may have joined Steve Irwin and the Princess of Wales on "the other side".

At the weekend we were treated to the social event of the year - Brett's 30th birthday party. The event was notable for two reasons. First, we have a friend who is 30 and secondly the party was held at the uber swish Ivy hotel in the city at the Pool Club, the rooftop open air pool and bar. Brett hired all the cabanas that line one side of the pool, complete with cushioned day beds, food was served all night and a fantastic DJ encouraged some serious rug-cutting. It is the most spectacular setting and we all felt as if we were in a movie, it felt so fabulous and exclusive. The downside of having a friend who is 30, is that he has lots of friends who are not yet 30, who are a size 6 and are in PR or stylists or actors and who make a 41 year old mother of two feel like Hattie Jacques. I had a great time, but I have never felt more invisible in my life. Although there was no actual swimming by any of Brett's guests, people do regularly swim in the pool and each toilet cibicle is fitted with a luxurious double shower. On Sunday, we slowed things down a bit by celebrating Tess's 2nd birthday. Julia had managed to find the most secret little reserve hidden deep in Bellevue Hill, complete with playset, a very high fast slide (see pix below) and plenty of space for running around. It was such a great hideaway we had the whole place to ourselves for the whole morning. Cakes, biscuits and games ensued, Tess herself totally oblivious to the fact that it was her birthday. Here she is with her special cake wearing the dress Julia wore on her 2nd birthday, made by her mum.




Friday, November 06, 2009

Glebe camel safari

Scarlett was invited to a birthday party this week to celebrate the 6th birthday of her classmate Mirabelle. Mirabella's mum Karin owns Ruby Star Traders, a beautiful furniture store selling high end pieces from India. She makes frequent buying trips to India and her house is exquisitely furnished and decorated, including a grand piano in the sitting room. The theme for the party therefore was maharajas and maharanis. As well as inviting the whole class - which includes eight various loud, destructive boys - Karin also arranged for two camels to attend to take the kids for rides up and down the laneway at the back of their house.
It was quite an event, with a huge spread of food for the kids, including these beautifully decorated biscuits, a pair of indian slippers each for the girls and a turban each for the boys. This party has now set the benchmark for all other parties - no pressure!. What happened to a quick game of pass the parcel and a slice of cake to take home in a napkin?

Tuesday, November 03, 2009

It's 37 degrees

It's 37 degrees. As I type. At 5.45pm. Ridiculous. That's all I'm saying.

Sunday, November 01, 2009

Sculpture by the Sea


We spent a very happy morning today wandering around Tamarama beach looking at some of the various exhibits of this year's Sculpture by the Sea exhibition. Most controversial was the 'lost boy' statue which was considered too outrageous to be without undies. The artist, quite rightly, removed said censoring undergarments to show his sculpture, exactly as it should have been. We bumped into Godfather Brett at the beach allowing some top godchild action, albeit with Flo - not his goddaughter - rather than man-hating Scarlett - his actual goddaughter. Anyway here are some of the highlights. In the afternoon, Rob attended a 'Dad's only " bowling afternoon in Petersham, with fellow beer-swilling dads from school, while Kirsty and I wrangled 5 kids between us aided by a bottle of champers. Happy days.