Sunday, July 29, 2012

The Mckendrys, part two

Our holiday japes with the Mckendrys continued with a lot of time at the beach, thanks to the fantastic weather. We spent Tuesday at Pett Level which was brilliant when the tide was out for hunting for crabs and beasties. History was made when I even swam in the incredibly warm sea.
 In the evening Moira reached into her bottomless store of dinner party games and we introduced the girls to Ibble Dibble, where a blackend cork is twisted onto the face of any player who makes a mistake.
 On Wednesday, with the sun still blazing, we had a cool walk in Powdermill Woods and then met up with two other families from school for a bbq and afternoon on the beach. We hardly saw the kids, who were in the sea for most of the day on inflatables.
 On Thursday, Rob had to leave us to go to Croydon to take his Life in Britain test, something he had to pass in order to be allowed to apply for a visa extension and, later, if he wants it, citizenship. He had been worrying about it for weeks, as failure would have dire consequences. While we was gone, the rest of us went up to Hastings Country Park for a walk along the cliffs and a picnic. In the afternoon, we headed to the seafront for a rousing and often hilarious round of Adventure Golf and then Pirate Golf. The girls loved it, no doubt because they are very proficient cheats.

 In the evening we celebrated Rob's successful pass with fizz on the deck, before walking into the Old Town with our beautiful girls for dinner at the Thai Bookshop.


 The Mckendrys then left us on Friday to drive west to Hove to stay with Fraser's sister Moira and her partner Jackie and to reunite with his mum Nancy, who is over on hols from NZ. We joined them all on Saturday for a lovely bbq, before our final farewells. Another fantastic visit with lots of laughs.

Here is a little film I made of our great time together.

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Madonna, last day, Mckendrys so far...

A top last week at school, which began with us driving to London to take the girls to see Madonna in concert in Hyde Park. It was great fun meeting up with Ruth and Pete, and staying up late, but the flat nature of the venue let the concert down - too hard to see the stage and the girls on our shoulders, A LOT. Also the set wasn't great, not enough dance numbers and a great deal of gun toting. We have seen her three times before, so if there's a next time, it had better be in an arena.


 The kids finished school for the summer on Friday and baked cookies for their teachers. This coincided with  a brilliant change in the weather, just in time for the McKendrys' arrival from rainy Scotland.
 We started their week-long stay by dressing up for the annual Hastings Pirate Day. The aim is to have the most pirates in one place, to get the World record, once won by Hastings, back from current holders Penzance. We were also joined by Neil, Lorna, Archie and Eve, ever swelling our crew numbers. We had a great time walking through town, where it was those who were not dressed as pirates who looked weird, having fish and chips on the beach before being herded into an enclosure for the head count. The good news is Hastings has won back the ttitle with more than 14,000 pirates turning up to be counted.


 On Monday, the sun still shining, we headed to the beach for a long stroll and for the kids, and Neil, to swim in the sea. Onwards then to Bodiam Castle for a picnic and some light recreational archery. As you do.


Red Arrows Hastings July 2012

The view from our house.






Monday, July 16, 2012

Race For Life 2012

Aha. I have been running 5km for about 5 years, but plodded along a bit. I decided to up the pace by signing up for an actual organised run and getting a running partner. My friend Sarah, the one in the tutu below, is, by her own admission, highly competitive and always wants to go faster, farther, longer etc. As a result I have shaved a full 6 minutes off my usual time for this distance. Last night Sarah sensibly remained pure and alcohol free, while we enjoyed a great night in with our neighbours Janice and Roger, which involved Prosecco and wine, plus ribs and roast chicken. Did it hinder my performance today? Not a jot. In fact, I might include it in all future pre-race running programmes. This morning, while I busied myself with my running outfit - wig, leg warmers, tutu etc, Flo and Scarlett made lovely banners and signs to wave along the route. Sarah arrived and we walked down the hill to the park where Race For Life was being held, a convenient 4 minutes way. There was a great atmosphere as 1,700 women, dressed in an assortment of pink hues, gathered for a warm up and minute's silence. Cue floods, as many people, myself included, wept openly, at the memory of those we have lost to cancer. All the runners had numbers on their fronts, but on their backs signs dedicated to friends or relatives, lost or battling cancer. It was hard to stay dry-eyed when I read many of them. Two ladies in their 60s in front of us, dedicated their run to their 56-year-old sister who had died only 6 weeks ago.  



Sarah and I decided to join the 'Runners' group, as opposed to the 'Joggers' or 'Walkers', and am glad we did as once we set off, up a long, steep hill, it was clear many had no business being in that group and Sarah and I were able to weave our way ahead. A small triumph was catching up with and passing Flo's 27-year-old teacher Miss Wood. The rain cleared, the sun shone and we ended up at the finishing line in 30 minutes, 29 seconds, only sightly missing our goal of 30 minutes. My gorgeous husband and daughters were at the finish line with pink gerbias, pink Champagne and a huge box of chocolates (full marks Rob) as well as our lovely friend Jen. The 3 families then moved to the bandstand where we feasted on rolls and olives brought by Sarah's husband David. A really great day.


Sunday, July 08, 2012

Sports for young and old

The week began with Sports Day on Monday. All the parents were herded into a sort of holding pen in the middle of the field, while the kids moved around us taking part in different 'Olympic' events - shot put, javelin, hurdles and sprinting. Most amusing were the 'javelins' which were made of foam, no doubt due to health and safety concerns, which were sent flying off in random directions with every breath of wind.

The weather has been hot and steamy all week, pouring with rain one minute, bright, hot sunshine the next. In spite of this, my friend Sarah and I have been running most days in training for our 5km sponsored run next weekend. I am also still going to kick boxing every week and am finding it really addictive and wish there was more than one class a week. By the end of the class I am soaked through and hoping to find someone in the street to fight with on my way home. 
On Friday the girls went to their friend Scarlett's 8th fancy dress birthday party (a third Scarlett joined their class last week, and we thought we had picked an original name). The birthday girl went as Dorothy, Scarlett and Flo went as a ladybird and a cat. However, in a fit of excitement, Flo had 'an accident' and was forced to change costumes part way through the party. Lucky I had a spare flamenco dress in the boot. Super Mum! The party was brilliant, in a village hall with a bouncy castle, face painter, games, dancing, a giant bear and a soft serve ice cream machine.



Friday night we left the girls with Natalie, aka Mary Poppins, their beloved babysitter, and walked to the Old Town to Boulevard Books. By day it is just that, a book shop, but at night the Thai owner  and chef and her husband put tables and chairs among the books and it becomes a fantastic BYO Thai restaurant.  We went with our new friends Sarah and David (not to be confused with other friends David and Sarah) and we had a huge amount of fun eating the best Thai food we've had since leaving Sydney. At about 11pm, we walked further into the Old Town to a club - a club! - to meet a group of friends from school, at the leaving party of other lovely new mates Jen and Matt. At the end of term they are packing their life into a Land Rover and moving to France to start a new life on a piece of land they have there. It's a brave move as they speak little French and the kids will have to start again at school, learning the lingo as they go. We had a right laugh, hitting the dance floor and staying out until 1am. Oh, we've still got it.










Monday, July 02, 2012

Weekend japes

A top weekend which began with our family movie night on Friday. We watched Forrest Gump on a video nabbed from the donations bag for the school Summer Fete. A late night and lots of tears for all. The next day was the fete itself and Rob and I were in charge of the coconut shy stall. We spent an hour in almost continuous hysterics, erecting our gazebo. We were apparently one if the fortunates as ours had flaps.  Within 30 minutes of assembly and erection, howling winds galloped across the open playing fields and toyed with our tent until it broke and collapsed. Cue more laughter. 


 We had such a laugh trying to help people knock heavy coconuts from stands with balls not disimilar in size and weight of ping pong balls. The girls had a blast running about with thier mates, spending money and getting sunburnt. We got home late afternoon, in time for me to prepare dinner for our special guests for the night, Martin and Drew, all the way from Sydney.  It was such a tonic to see them both, looking so well and we had a gorgeous evening together laughing, catching up and going over stories old and new.
 On Sunday morning, at 7.30am, with Rob and Scarlett still pushing out the Zs, Flo and I took the boys on a whistlestop tour of Hastings, stopping on the beach for this photo by the fishing boats.

 It was very hard to say goodbye to them a few hours later as they headed back to London for the next stage of their trip, a holiday in Croatia. It was lovely then to get a phone call from Adrian and Laline, inviting us to join them for a distracting walk along the cliffs at Fairlight, in beautiful sunshine and lots of wind. In the afternoon Scarlett and I drove to Maidstone to visit my Dad, who has been in hospital for 10 days. He was thrilled to see us, and us him, and we are hoping his drs will come to a conclusion about his treatment and cure soon.