Sunday, November 30, 2008
Christmas time, mistletoe and wine....
It's nearly that time of year again when we celebrate the singing voice of our messiah Cliff Richard and the birth of the baby Jesus. We have had weather of biblical proportions this weekend - a huge hail storm on Saturday night and now a roasting hot day with not a cloud in the sky. Despite the heat we are managing to get very excited about Christmas. Scarlett opened the first window in her advent calendar this morning and tonight we are putting up the tree with Florence in attendance, mainly so she doesn't wake up tomorrow and get so excited by the sight of it that she pulls it over. I have already had to confiscate the nativity set when one of the sheep was kidnapped by Florence and used inappropriately in a rendition of Old McDonald. Rob took Scarlett into the city on Thursday night for a special treat, to see the Martin Place Christmas tree lights get turned on.
There were dancing kangaroos, fireworks and a performance by The Hooley Dooleys, serious icons when you're 4. On Saturday we were joined at ballet by Uncle Brett (Scarlett's godfather) and Amelia (Florence's godmother) for Scarlett's very first Christmas show (see video below). It was hilarious and sweet at the same time. My favourite bit was when instead of simply doing the dance steps, counting them in their heads, they all sang the numbers of the steps out loud drowning out the song they were dancing to. At the end Brett presented Scarlett with her very first bouquet. Priceless.

Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Happy Birthday Rob
Scarlett and Florence now really enjoy each other's company - most of the time - and when not fighting over a pen lid, enjoy face pulling. Here is a shot of one of their synchronised efforts.
Finally, the other night when we went in to check on Florence before going to bed, we found her asleep in this extraordinary position.

Saturday, November 08, 2008
Bye bye Kendall
Monday, November 03, 2008
The pox
There has been a pox on our house this last week and a half. Scarlett started developing spots last Monday. I thought they were mozzie bites, but Dr Duthie correctly diagnosed chicken pox. Immunisations for it were only introduced for children born two months after Scarlett so she was always going to get it. Luckily Florence had her jab only a week earlier so she was fine. Blood tests revealed Rob was immune but I was not, so Scarlett wasn't allowed in nursery last week and I am off work until the end of this week in case I have it and could contaminate one of my colleagues. Work policy it would seem. Sweet. So we had a lovely hot day at the beach and pool yesterday, I've been for a run today and I'll have two days to myself on Thursday and Friday while the girls are back at nursery.



Our wonderful friend Maggie Alderson, the chick lit novel queen, was over from the UK this week to promote and launch her new book. We knew she was due about now but didn't have any dates and the first we knew of her arrival was seeing her on morning tv promoting the book. Maggie is English but worked with me on The Herald for several years before heading back to the UK, where she now lives in hastings, near Maria and Jack. We had Maggie over for dinner on Friday night and as usual laughed our heads off and made each other feel bad about not living in Sydney/England anymore. We agreed, once you leave a place it's hard to know where you fit in anymore.
On Sunday morning a very hungover Sarah-Kate and Mark came over for a cuppa and a catchup. They were in town for the weekend from NZ for a party and will soon be moving to Mexico for several months where Mark will work on the final film from the Narnia series.
In the meantime Rob's mo is taking on a life of its own and is developing quite a personality, although it did give me a bit of cheek this week.
Friday, October 24, 2008
Up, up and away in my beautiful, my beautiful balloooooon...
It takes a lot to get me out of bed at 4.20am and yet last Friday, in spite of my fear of heights, that's what I had to do, to go hot-air ballooning for a story for the travel section of the paper. While the rest of the house snoozed, I slipped away in the dark to Homebush to meet a group of people eagerly hoping, as I was, for views along the harbour of the bridge and opera house, while floating above eating bread for slimmers.
Unfortunately because of an annoying westerly blowing, we ended up driving a long way west of the city and launching from a field next to a motorway in Rooty Hill. It was very cool lifting off silently and smoothly as the sun came up and soon we were at 3,000 feet spying the city in the distance in one direction and the Blue Mountains off to the west. Our pilot, a 20-something from just outside Guildford in Surrey, assured us he had 10 years' flying experience and a commercial pilot's licence, despite looking about 11. The wind carried us to the north west of Sydney so that for the majority of the flight we were looking down at vast housing estates of McMansions going up everywhere. Nice to perve at people's houses from a Google Earth real-
time perspective but not really the views I was hoping for. Anyhoo here are some pix of a fun morning.
In other news, we can now confirm that Scarlett has unfortunately inherited the Ludkin nose.
Rob's growing a mo
During Movember (the month formerly known as November) Rob is growing a Mo. That's right he's bringing the Mo back because he's being proactive in the fight against men's depression and prostate cancer. That and because he's run out of razors. Rob will be going for a sort of 1970s porn star Mo, so don't be alarmed when you see him and try not to point, stare or laugh because he thinks it looks cool and you might discourage him. Though I am fully supportive of Rob's efforts, I find the whole thing a bit icky as he will soon look like my 4th year science teacher Mr White. Though a smashing bloke and a very competent educator, I did NOT want to kiss Mr White - he wore cowboy boots.
Anyhoo, to donate to Rob's Mo you can either:
1.
Click this link
https://www.movember.com/au/donate/donate-details.php?action=sponsorlink
®o=1494836&country=au and donate online using your credit card or PayPal account, or 2.
Write a cheque payable to 'Movember Foundation', referencing his Registration Number 1494836 and mailing it to:
Movember Foundation
PO Box 292
Prahran VIC 3181 Remember, all donations over $2 are tax deductible.
The money raised by Movember is used to raise awareness of men's health issues and donated to the Prostate Cancer Foundation of Australia and beyondblue - the national depression initiative. The PCFA and beyondblue will use the funds to fund research and increase support networks for those men who suffer from prostate cancer and depression.
Did you know:
* Depression affects 1 in 6 men....most don't seek help. Untreated
depression is a leading risk factor for suicide.
* Last year in Australia 18,700 men were diagnosed with prostate
cancer and more than 2,900 died of prostate cancer - equivalent to the number of women who will die from breast cancer annually.
Thanks for supporting Rob. Naturally photos will be along shortly monitoring his progress.
Anyhoo, to donate to Rob's Mo you can either:
1.
Click this link
https://www.movember.com/au/donate/donate-details.php?action=sponsorlink
®o=1494836&country=au and donate online using your credit card or PayPal account, or 2.
Write a cheque payable to 'Movember Foundation', referencing his Registration Number 1494836 and mailing it to:
Movember Foundation
PO Box 292
Prahran VIC 3181 Remember, all donations over $2 are tax deductible.
The money raised by Movember is used to raise awareness of men's health issues and donated to the Prostate Cancer Foundation of Australia and beyondblue - the national depression initiative. The PCFA and beyondblue will use the funds to fund research and increase support networks for those men who suffer from prostate cancer and depression.
Did you know:
* Depression affects 1 in 6 men....most don't seek help. Untreated
depression is a leading risk factor for suicide.
* Last year in Australia 18,700 men were diagnosed with prostate
cancer and more than 2,900 died of prostate cancer - equivalent to the number of women who will die from breast cancer annually.
Thanks for supporting Rob. Naturally photos will be along shortly monitoring his progress.
Monday, October 20, 2008
Never on a Friday
Rob picked up the girls early from Wattle Lane last Friday and we all met up in the city with a few other mates for the annual night noodle markets. This year it was bigger than ever, with loads more food stalls, DJs and, Chinese dragon performers. Rob HATES Chinese dragons, to the extent that he has turned the car around before when he's seen one coming down the street in Chinatown. Too loud and annoying. The markets were PACKED, so on top of not being able to get a seat anywhere and having to perch on the concrete edge of a flower bed, having the girls screaming in fear at these huge dragons dancing so close to them with massively loud and irritating drums and cymbals smashing away, meant it was a pretty ordinary night.
Note to self: next time don't go on Friday. On Saturday we went to Newtown to visit our close friends Melissa and Larry who welcomed their second baby girl on Thursday.
Clover Grace is sooooo cuuuuttte and we did the usual oohing and ahhing, commenting we couldn't believe babies were ever sooooo small, while toasting her good health. Then the girls and I dropped Rob off in the city to meet his old friends from London Kathleen and Robin, Stacey and Darren.
Rob lived with Darren in North Finchley when I first met him, so they go waaaaay back. On Sunday after breakfast at our favourite bookshop cafe, I browsed books and pretended I didn't know my two children who were going crazy in the kids section. I will be spending a lot more time in book shops soon as I have been promoted at work and will soon be taking up the role of Managing Editor, Fairfax Books. As well as newspapers, Fairfax who I work for, also publish a range of books including restaurant guides, cook books, crime stories and more. I am thrilled to have got the job as 75 redundancies were recently made at work, and my job as I know it now, might not exist at all in the next few years. This move into a different side of the publishing business will hopefully widen my experience and mean my job will be safe for years to come.
This week I also managed to have a slight collision in our car with the back of a ute. I have taken to calling it a 'dingle' as it sounds very small that way. To be honest I have no idea whose fault it was. Uteman might have rolled back into me or me forward into him. Either way the dingle was so small I didn't even bother to get out of the car to check it, instead smiled and waved at the driver after he gave me the thumbs up after checking his vehicle. Only when I got home did I see the front left light was hanging out of its housing, and the bonnet was dented and chipped. I was dreading Rob's reaction, but even more annoying and upsetting than him yelling at me, he just smiled and said "Oh well, you'll have to sort that out then." Two garages later I had an estimate of $1500 to fix it. Unfortunately we have a massive excess on on our policy in order to reduce our premiums and this damage though costly comes in at less than the excess. For now the car will have to wait...
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
eat, drink, hopscotch, eat, drink, bike ride, eat, drink...
Friday, October 10, 2008
Crash, bang, wallop part 2!!
Within 48 hours of Scarlett's wipe out on her bike, it was Florence's turn to come a cropper. Scarlett is quite the maternal 4-year-old and regularly yells out reports to me regarding on Flo's whereabouts or needs "Flo's standing on the table!!!" or "Flo wants a drink, Mum!!" are common calls in our house. On Wednesday I was in Flo's room sorting out her wardobe when I hear a thud. Nothing unusual about that, I thought, followed by "Mum !! Flo's fallen down the stairs!!" . I ran to her to pick her up and tell her she was fine, but when she looked up at me blood was spilling out of the sides of her mouth. She was screaming and the blood kept on coming. She put her hands up to her mouth covering them and her face with blood. There was blood on the floor, all down her top and after I grabbed her, all over me. I picked her up and tried to see what she had done but, I'm telling you, there was so much blood I couldn't tell if she had split her lip, bitten her tongue or cut the inside of her mouth. I sent Scarlett racing next door to our neighbours Steve and Barbara who are nurses, but finding them out I had to decide fast what to do - stay home and hope the bleeding stopped or to go to the hospital? In the end I yelled at Scarlett to get in the car and after wrapping a terry towel around Flo's neck to catch the blood, I strapped them in and we zoomed up the street towards our local medical centre. At the top of the street, I realised I'd left a pan of potatoes boiling on the hob and had to turn around. When we finally reached the drs, we had to park (now that doesn't happen in emergencies in the movies) and run inside. When the receptionist saw us she clasped her hand to her mouth and said "oh my God!" which was of course EXACTLY what you want to hear! She rushed us into a treatment room where a nurse was looking after an ancient Latvian woman complete with winter coat (it was 25 degrees), head scarf and ankle boots. While she lay on the bed moaning in Latvian, the nurse examined Flo. By now the blood had stopped and we were able to see she had put her bottom tooth through her top lip. The nurse sang Old Macdonald to Florence while she cleaned her up and then the dr came in for a look too. We all decided it wouldn't be a nice experience for her to have stitches and that it would heal in its own time. Luckily Florence is on antibiotics for an ear infection, so that should help with what is now a massive fat lip.
Tuesday, October 07, 2008
Crash, bang, wallop!
Scarlett had her first go at riding her bike without training wheels yesterday afternoon. With our new friends Bev and Gav and their kids in tow, we headed to the local park at the end of our street to see if Scarlett (aged 4 and a half) would be able to manage it. Before we'd even got to the park Rob was pushing her along down the middle of our street (!) and she was off, cycling along like a loony. However as we hadn't had the talk about what to do when she wanted to slow down, she chose to come to a stop by steering into a parked car. Luckily it was only an old VW Beetle and there wasn't a mark on it. Scarlett thought the whole thing was hilarious and, despite the loud bang on impact, was soon up on her feet gagging to go again. Once in the park, Rob took her to the top of the hill and let her go, there she was again zooming down the hill, all the way to the bottom around the big tree, past the benches before crash landing again. Up she got, pleased as punch and ran into my arms as we all clapped and cheered (see above video clip). I would like to point out here that I repeatedly said to Rob and Scarlett 'you should really do this on the grass, so if you fall off it will be a soft landing'. As with many things a mother says, my words went unheeded. On the third go, Scarlett made it about halfway down the path before crashing spectacularly, the sound of her bike grinding along the tarmac setting teeth on edge (the video footage is too horrid to post here). Scarlett emerged from beneath the wreckage with a bloody nose, fat lip, cut face and horribly grazed elbow. There were tears, lots and lots of them, alongwith trembling, disbelief and pain. Rob and I both ran to her, me with Flo in my arms and as we took turns comforting her, little Flo stood beside her patting her head. We headed home for a Dettol bath, band aid application and lots of cuddles before Scarlett was popped in front of Play School with a big cup of her much-loved soy milk. Poor love - look at that poor bruised, cut, disappointed face.
It took her quite a while to perk up, but eventually she was up and at it again, playing hide and seek with Louis and Susie. Meanwhile the rest of us tucked into the amazing pizza Gav
Monday, October 06, 2008
Hot, then cold, then wet, then dry
Bizarre then to wake up on Saturday to torrential rain. We managed to fill the day however with ballet, a bit of shopping and an afternoon visit from my friend Cerentha and her children Jack and Lu. 
Saturday night Rob's quite inebriated brother Craig arrived for the night. Every year he and a bunch of mates come down to Sydney for the Rugby League Grand Final. They start drinking on Saturday morning before they get on the plane from Brisbane (oh to be a passenger on that flight) and then are transferred by minibus to a bar on the northern beaches where they continue to drink. At some point while he can still stand, he then usually gets in a cab and comes and sees us for the night. This year Rob and Scarlett drove into the city and picked him up from his hotel and while the rest of his mates hit the bars, Craig came for dinner with us. As always there was much to talk and laugh about and more wine and scotch was drunk.
The clocks went forward on Sunday morning so, as well as waking an hour short of sleep, we were all a bit worse for wear. Rob had to get up at 6am and go to work after only 4 hours sleep. The girls and I waved Craig off in a taxi at 8.30, heading back to the city to meet up with his mates for a special rugby breakfast complete with more drink, before the game that night. I don't know how he does it. Funniest of all, they don't even go to the game to watch it live - they watch it on a big screen tv in a bar, something you think they could do from their homes in Brisbane.
Yesterday was a bit of a strain for me, stuck indoors on a rainy day with a hangover and sleep deprived with two children who were raring to go. Making use of piles of previously unplayed with cuddly toys served us well for a couple of hours as did a trip to the park in the afternoon once the rain stopped.
Once he got home, Rob popped out again to the dr to be diagnosed with bronchitis. Needless to say it was an early night for us last night.
Today the rain has cleared, the sun is shining and we are off to the park to start teaching Scarlett to ride her bike without her training wheels. I can still remember my Dad running alongside my bike in our street and me cycling without training wheels for the first time and turning to my Dad, only to find he was back at the end of the street and that I had done it all by myself. Knowing Scarlett's temperament I doubt the same fond memories will be formed today.
Monday, September 29, 2008
Time flies...
Another top weekend. Richard Quance, who I met on my first day at Manchester Poly 22 years ago, came for the weekend from Perth where he now lives. The girls adored him, following him about and insisting he read books and play board games.
While Rob slept off a night shift Quancey joined the girls and I at the organic market for a coffee and bacon and egg roll followed by ballet. Then while Quancey went for a swim Rob and I entertained our lovely friends from NZ, Glenys and Gerald, alongwith Glenys's sister June and her husband Jack. They were only on a stopover of a few hours on their way to Bali so once they had deposited their full duty-free allowance of 8 bottles of Bombay Sapphire on our kitchen counter, we fed them prawn and tomato stew and cupcakes and they were off again.
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Then while Rob went back to bed, Quancey and I assembled the bed that was finally delivered for our guest room. It was a hot and bothered affair as it was 30 degrees. That night, with Rob finally upright and the babysitter in place, the 3 of us walked to the next suburb to meet Quancey's old mate Gavin Dodd. I hadn't seen him for about 19 years and had never met his wife Bev or their two lovely kids, who moved to Sydney 4 weeks ago and don't know a soul. It was lovely to catch up over a bottle or two in the local Italian before heading home by 11pm so Rob could go off to work. On Sunday, it was all go again as Gav, Bev and the kids came over
for a late lunch at ours, complete with amusingly-named ice creams, finally heading home at 7pm. Gav was back on our doorstep at 8pm for more drinks and laughs. Gav used to play guitar for Jamiroquai and is still a musician and composer and Bev is a commissioning editor with Random House. We all got on famously, including the kids, and we are looking forward to lots more laughs with them in the future.
In other news, this morning I had my annual check up with my oncologist and it's something of a milestone this year as I have reached 10 years since diagnosis without recurrence of the cancer. While there was no band (promised by my doctor Jane, when I reached 5 years) it was lovely to see Jane again, note how much had happened in the last decade and to have her tell me how well I had done. Today is also the 13th anniversary of my mum's death, so I stopped in at the hospital chapel on my way to work to say a little prayer of thanks for my life and had a chat with Mum while I was in there.
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Sisters
We are really looking forward to seeing my old mate Quancey when he flies in from Perth this weekend and I have been rushing about buying curtains and trying to get the guest room ready. All efforts to get a double bed delivered by Friday have failed, so it's the old blow up bed again, I'm afraid, mate. He's slept on worse. Once won a trip to see us from the UK, he came camping with us and had to sleep on the cold, hard, damp earth. This made for an uncomfortable night's sleep for us too as we had to listen to all his complaining. We will certainly be packing it all in while he's here as we have a lunch with friends from NZ on Saturday, plus a dinner out that night and a lunch on the Sunday. Lorks!
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